This post will be short because the answer is simple.
You focus your effort only on that which you can control.
In other words, you focus on your on activities, learning, and growth.
You cannot force someone else to do what you want them to do, so do not waste your energy trying to get them to do what you want or complaining that they don’t do what you want.
Focus on your own craft.
Become amazing at what you do.
Eventually, you’ll find the right people who respond to your efforts in the right way.
But it will because you focused on executing on the small tasks that make you better.